Self Description: I'm good at my job and I actually like it, which I know isn't something everyone can say. I like people, I like solving things, I like when a complicated situation untangles itself. What I'm less good at is slowing down, which I'm working on with mixed results. My friends would describe me as loyal to a fault, slightly chaotic in the kitchen, and someone who asks too many questions. I've gotten to a point where I know exactly what I want from this. A real relationship with someone who shows up, means what he says, and isn't afraid to actually move things forward when it feels right.

Comments: Someone who doesn't need managing. That's genuinely the first thing that comes to mind and I'm leaving it in. After a day of holding everything together professionally, what I want to come home to is a man who has his own life sorted. I'd love to meet someone who makes decisions. Small ones, big ones just a person who sees what needs doing and does it without a committee meeting. That quality, in my experience, is either there or it isn't. Warm enough that being around him feels like actual rest. The kind of warmth that shows up in small things remembering what I mentioned in passing, noticing when something's off before I say anything, showing up when it counts without needing to be asked. Ready for something real and not shy about it. We're all adults here.